Everybody feels lonely sometimes. But only few of us are aware how important this feeling was for our ancestors – and that our modern world can turn it into …
"Most animals get what they need from their physical surroundings; we get what we need from each other." Yeah ok, we also get what we need from our physical environement. We just experience a level of detachment from that because we outsource violence and exploitation of natural resources for other humand and non-human animals because we dont want to look at. People living in state run capitalist societies actually believe they can just mind their own personal business, passively exploit others labor value everyday they consume more product, and consider themselves peaceful. If you think youre a peaceful person, you are probably one of the larger contributors of derived violence because you arent even educating yourself on how to reduce the impact you cause on other people and non-human animals.
I used to be really connected to the friends at my school now, they would understand me and I would understand them. But recently we've grown apart, some of us changing to the point where we cant even laugh at the same jokes anymore. We're slowly getting disconnected from one another and have less together classes as well. But I think that this is something natural. You always think that this one group of friends are gonna be your friends forever but I don't think that's the case. Its hard pretending to be around people you don't feel connected with anymore. I'm just waiting to go to UNI now so I can meet new people
9:48 I felt personally and emotionally attacked. But then again, benefit of the doubt, I did click on the video to see 🤷🏻♂️ I learnt something, thanks again to y'all at kurzgesagt ❤
Absolutely spot on. I want to make friends buts it's hard putting yourself out there. As 21 year old guy at college am trying to make friends but it's damn hard
In the beginning it's hard to deal with loneliness, but with time, you get used and became normal, unless, if you stay depressed. But, in other hand, if you have a good solitude you can even feel happy alone. 😉
This video, and optimistic nihilism have been the 2 most emotionally awakening videos I have ever seen, I would have never realized how I felt about these topics if it wasn’t so beautifully explained like you guys did. I do feel lonely, and i have experienced everything that was shown in the video. It lately has become to a point where it’s becoming a literal physical pain, like I often feel this pain and pressure in my chest when I’m sad. I also seem to be thinking the worst of others, if someone says something to me I often feel like it had a double meaning, and that they were trying to tell me something bad even thou what they said wasn’t even all that. And I sometimes feel like it’s better to just seal up all these feelings, lock myself away from everything and everybody and hoping that it will fade away, it never goes away, the pain just becomes stronger until you find yourself crying and yearning so hard for a simple hug. Your heart feels empty. And I’m actually very good in social gatherings, I’m not shy, I speak and express my opinion on things, I ask questions, I participate and I show empathy, but none of that fills the void.
We designed a poster on this topic as well. You can find it here: https://standard.tv/collections/in-a-nutshell/products/in-a-nutshell-loneliness-poster
All my “friends” don’t talk to me and my family is disappointed in me, I’ve never felt more alone and depressed in my life.
Me: “I’m feeling lonely…”
Them: “Just cheer up! :)”
Me: “What an idea! Why haven’t I thought of that before?”
Bruh….
All I need is a damn hug…
As a meme lord I am a Lil bit social ye?
𝘈 𝘜𝘯𝘪𝘲𝘶𝘦 𝘗𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘯 𝘓𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴…
You're full of yourself. You're not that special. Welcome to earth. Population: 7.5 billion you's.
School: NOBODY BULLYS HERE SO YA
Why did Youtube recommend me this after my girl left me?
HTL students:
Women?! Friends?!
Never heard of that pls explain
"Most animals get what they need from their physical surroundings; we get what we need from each other." Yeah ok, we also get what we need from our physical environement. We just experience a level of detachment from that because we outsource violence and exploitation of natural resources for other humand and non-human animals because we dont want to look at. People living in state run capitalist societies actually believe they can just mind their own personal business, passively exploit others labor value everyday they consume more product, and consider themselves peaceful. If you think youre a peaceful person, you are probably one of the larger contributors of derived violence because you arent even educating yourself on how to reduce the impact you cause on other people and non-human animals.
Gosh do I live in the worst country in the world the USA I feel so isolated in this narcissistic society
so basically i have chronicle loneliness at 11
often i litterly dont talk for 2-3 days – not even to myself… but jeah – why would i?
Got borderline and Manic Depression and also an Helping-komplex…….. great so foukus on other`s problems – not mine my hole life
well this is pretty much my life in a nutshell….
Well guess I've done it for years. Around four? Now I kind of forget how to socialize. Even though everyone around me seems so positive.
This is basically me but instead never been in a relationship and still a virgin.
Loneliness is the best way to self realization
I used to be really connected to the friends at my school now, they would understand me and I would understand them. But recently we've grown apart, some of us changing to the point where we cant even laugh at the same jokes anymore. We're slowly getting disconnected from one another and have less together classes as well. But I think that this is something natural. You always think that this one group of friends are gonna be your friends forever but I don't think that's the case. Its hard pretending to be around people you don't feel connected with anymore. I'm just waiting to go to UNI now so I can meet new people
this dudes voice is so sexy
99% talking with my mind
1% talking with people
Although we’re living in a world of social constructs and relationships, we also live a time where the world feels so.. small.
Guess I should just fucking kill myself then
Everyone is an enemy to me :(. Benefit of the doubt is too hard…
How to fight loneliness
Smile all the time
Shine you teeth til meaningless
Sharpen them with lies
And whatevers going down
Will follow you around
Thats how you fight loneliness
You laugh at every joke
Drag your blanket blindly
Fill your heart with smoke
And the first thing that you want
Will be the last thing you ever need
Thats how you fight it
Just smile all the time
Just smile all the time
Just smile all the time
Just smile all the time
this is why Omegle was invented
9:07 yes yes yes yes
Fuck
I'm lonely
If you feel lonley yust order a bitch
Hey Kurzgesagt try a video about the atmosphere
Your not alone it’s here it found you 💞💖
Don’t worry guys I’m hiding in your house 💞💖 Your not alone
Even people thought you're that optimistic in life still, loneliness can't be avoid.
9:48 I felt personally and emotionally attacked. But then again, benefit of the doubt, I did click on the video to see 🤷🏻♂️ I learnt something, thanks again to y'all at kurzgesagt ❤
Absolutely spot on. I want to make friends buts it's hard putting yourself out there. As 21 year old guy at college am trying to make friends but it's damn hard
In the beginning it's hard to deal with loneliness, but with time, you get used and became normal, unless, if you stay depressed. But, in other hand, if you have a good solitude you can even feel happy alone. 😉
This video, and optimistic nihilism have been the 2 most emotionally awakening videos I have ever seen, I would have never realized how I felt about these topics if it wasn’t so beautifully explained like you guys did. I do feel lonely, and i have experienced everything that was shown in the video. It lately has become to a point where it’s becoming a literal physical pain, like I often feel this pain and pressure in my chest when I’m sad. I also seem to be thinking the worst of others, if someone says something to me I often feel like it had a double meaning, and that they were trying to tell me something bad even thou what they said wasn’t even all that. And I sometimes feel like it’s better to just seal up all these feelings, lock myself away from everything and everybody and hoping that it will fade away, it never goes away, the pain just becomes stronger until you find yourself crying and yearning so hard for a simple hug. Your heart feels empty. And I’m actually very good in social gatherings, I’m not shy, I speak and express my opinion on things, I ask questions, I participate and I show empathy, but none of that fills the void.
I feel so alone I don’t wanna die I just wanna be happy
Byoung-Chul Han